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Boys, Boys, Boys, Boys, Boys I do Adore

Posted by: sadeternaloptimist on: July 5, 2009

Boys I Do Adore

So its this chicks blog who i look at consistently and I decided i was going to kinda take a page from her book and list my guys…..lol….right now i have been on kind of a spiritual path so its not many but here we go….

Friend Zone: Uhhhh im not sure if i can even count him. Its this guy who i have been cool with for some time now, he is cool as ever but he it not really my type. And his personality is cool, but not cool enough to make me just like him like him. He is super nice, we have hung at his house and gone out. He gives me compliments all the time, on my hair and just always says something about me being fine(and i tell him to stop cause im uncomfortable with compliments…lol)…..but for now we r keeping him in the friend zone.

Freak or Not a Freak: So last summer i started messaging this guy on facebook, he went to school a couple hours away but was from the city im in, so whatever. So we just texted and messaged really and somehow we fell off. So recently i was in walmart and i see this cutie, and im like ooooo he is cute. So he comes up to me and asks does he know me from somewhere.(I mean im kind of a big deal, so im like from campus? from facebook???) then he was like yeah!!! facebook, asked my name, blah blah. So we realized it was eachother, so we said it was good to finally meet and kept it moving. But he added me on facebook a couple of days later and sent me a message. We have been texting lately, and the other day he texted me and said he wanted to lick the rain off of me…..uhhhh what?? negro i dont know u like that….ha….so now im thinking that maybe his overly freaky ways r wat turned me off last summer? idk we will see how he bounces back from this…..………….UPDATE!!!!: so the other day i told him i didnt do house dates anymore, he said it was dumb and i havent heard from him since then….lol…no wonder y i stopped talking to his dumb butt before!!  UPDATE 2::: So i saw him at the club and he walked past me 3 times…..negro please, u r too out…so calm all that down….

Tha Cable Guy: Okay so when i was leaving home to come back to school this summer i met this cool guy at the gas station. He worked for Comcast, lol(hey atleast he got a job). So on the way up here we talked the whole time and he seemed super cool, and ready to be serious in life. This man asked me that night if we could commit to only talking to eachother and me being the pimp i am is like un un, i dont know u like that to just drop everybody else. U could decide u hate my personality tomo or something. Or the same for me with u. So no, anyway i think he got mad. We talked a couple of more times then he got ghost. So like 2 days ago he called me and was like where u been? He says he lost my number, and was mad i never hit him up. So we will see if he continues to keep making contact.(He kinda crazy anyway, so i dont know if i want him to, lol)

Off Limits Maybe??: So like an hour ago this guy messaged me on facebook(i secretly liked him) but i thought he still had a gf, he threw in there that he was looking for a new chick…so i was like hmmmm….he is friends with my last summer fling(he was really my boo, lol) so im like u r off limits…so right now we just, like 5 mins ago, exchanged numbers and r setting up a date….wow….wtf….we will see how this goes….with my news rules…..next blog is about my new found rules!!!!…………………….UPDATE: So off limits has been hittin me up alot, asked me to happy hour on tomo(friday) but i will be at work, but anywho…..he has been asking me to come chill at his apt…and i was gon go, but i started feeling bad(dizzy and stuff) so i had to lay down….he told me to still come but drive slow(negro r u retarded??) so he begged for like 2 hours, i didnt go, but the next day i planned to. i got in the area and called and he didnt seem to enthused……oh so now u wanna act funny, un un, i aint going…so i think i may cut him out for good….ugh UPDATE 2:::: I happened to talk to him yesterday and ended up going to visit after the club. He was a total gentleman….we kissed alot and *whispers*He was a great kisser….i fell asleep there and we woke up and watched cartoons…it was nice….we just chilled…he may be back in…lol

The Older Guy: So this guy is 25, i never thought he would even be on the list. He is….sigh….my friends cousins friend. I met him through the cousin. We started off emailing(what type of old head stuff??) then he asked for the digits, lol…and we started texting every once in a while. And yesterday we chilled and talked for like 6 or 7 hours. It was one of the best convos i have ever had. Plus he looked sooooo darn sexy with his Rick Ross thing going on…oooooo lol…but anyway we texted today and he asked me on a date for when he comes back into town….Its not even until like 10 days from now, and im already excited thinking about clothes and whatnot….lol…idk we will see….

So like i said im on my spiritual thing right now…on some real let ur husband find u type of stuff. So i have been trying to not be my regular forward self, by stepping to guys. I just been falling back, and hoping one will come to me. So we will see…….sigh

 

The Friend of a Friend: So i have a problem with seeing a cute guy on facebook and letting them know that i think they r cute…lol, so i see this guy on my old neighbors pictures an wrote on the pic that he was cute, and needed to come to the city. Lol, so from there we added eachother and started  sending  messages and just chatting.

4 Responses to "Boys, Boys, Boys, Boys, Boys I do Adore"

Soooo this cable guy is…umm interesting…he’s very weird! first off…you hadnt known him 3 days and he wants to sort of commit! Creepy..but hey you amy want to keep him around…you for the DAILY ATTENTION GETTER!(EVERY GIRL SHOULD HAVE A GUY LIKE THIS)…This random facebook freind needs to be put on the backburner. He obviouslt threw you off with that one comment. thats a huge turn off and you should have let him know that! i WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK ON YOUR QUEST FOR A HUSBAND! Im there with you. I got it in my mind that I have to stop looking at stature and stop dating the same type of guys. That person that ready to commit and treat me right, is right in my face! I just need to clear the path of these “wrongs!”…also to help your journey…limit the guys yout alk to…if they dont seem like boyfriend material…drop them. If they’re trying to chill and not go out…then drop them.

yeah comcast is weird….idk. but random facebook friend is a total turn off, im tryna give him the benefit of the doubt but he irks me more every day. lol….and awww thanks and hmmm to him being in ur face…..

Lmao at the updates… Off limits maybe sounds like a good deal but you do have to watch those “limelight” folks…..And also with him being a friend of an ex-boo… you better stay on your p’s and q’s (lol) that is unless you dn’t mind him finding out.

niggas be wilding….but yeah u really do have to watch those types, especially since as soon as he got in the limelight all of a sudden the gf became ex gf…..hmmmm

and naw i dont really mind the friend finding out….i mind wat he will think of me….cause he already said i dont mess with him because he didnt make it to the limelight…..sooooo not true…

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